Missing someone

Attention : LONG post

People come to your life for a reason, a Season ,or a Lifetime

Author Unknown

"When you figure out which one it is ,
You will know what to do for each person,
When someone is in your life for a REASON...
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed
They have come to assist you through a difficulty
to provide you with guidence and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually
They may seem like a godsend , and they are !
They are there for the reason you need them to be
Then ,without any wrongdoing on your part,
or an incovenient time, this person will say
or do something to bring the relationship to an end

Sometimes they die
sometimes they walk away
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled , thier work is done
The prayer you sent up has been answerd
And now it is time to move on.

Then people come into your life for a SEASON...
Because your turn has come to share, grow , or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace ,or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy
Believe it ! it is real But,only for a season

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
things you must build upon inorder to have
a solid emotional foundation.
Your job to accept the lesson,love the person,
and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas in your life .
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant "



We all have been in relationships and we all had relationships that ended (weather good or bad ) , and here I'm not talking about boy/girl friend specifically , I mean in general weather he/she is your boyfriend /girlfriend or a best friend or a friend . Sometimes we meet people ...and we get attached to them , what kind of relationship with them isn't really put into a category , they aren't exactly a boy/girlfriend ,nor a real friend nor a best friend ...but they are the kind of people that meant something to you at that time , before the relationship ended , maybe they were older and wiser and were like mentors ...someone you looked upto , maybe they were in yourlife for a purpose ...inorder for you to move on , maybe they were there for a reason , and until you know why they were there you'll most likely find other people that resemble them . Sometimes it's the first lover or a best friend ..., the lover can no longer be with you because of many reasons but maybe it was juvenille love , the best friend moved to another city..college or got engaged /married . Certain people pass through our life keeping a trace of them inside of you , and after they are gone...you sometimes long for them ...you miss them , want them want to talk to them...not for the sake of talking ...you want them to listen to you . I wonder is it them we miss or is it the us the past us that we long for and miss when we were with them ?





baby I miss you..