I have a narcisisstic dad

Is it too wrong to say that you have a very ANNOYING father ?, people do that all the time about thier mothers, why not state the truth or the fact about thier fathers,that some people do have a very very annoying narcisisstic /borderlinish father , who blurts out things that hurts others, yet when others do that to them they get hurt or offended , very self-centered pigs or jerks .