Raised by a "Bitch" ?

you'll be raised by a "jerk"

Men who were raised by very strong self-centered "bitches" .will eventually marry someone they can control or at least try to , to compensate on thier "vanished manhood" , they are intimdated from strong women or girls (Wife or daughter ) who seem to have it and have a strong sense of who they are , they think that she's a threat to thier manhood or fatherhood , that's why when a girl doesn't put value to herself as much as she should , it's a safe thing , but if she's independent and strong then it's a threat to thier image of mahood /fatherhood .It's very natural for one to love him/herself , healthy love , so when a parent/s disapprove of that by making his offsprings hate themselves ..by not teaching self-love, then that's sick I guess.

I see alot of friends who are older than 18 , still struggling with thier parents (sometime one of them , sometimes both). Being in control of thier lives even when they are older than 18, just because they happen to still be living with them for some reason or the other.

No one has the right to belittle others , humilate others , even if he/she happend to be the parent , especially if thier children happen to be over 20 .I don't see why should a 20 something year old listen to the command of the parent/s,especially after being humilated after being shout at in a loud and angry voice in the street , for something stupid , like not listning to the "command" and not

answering the phone . If there were people in the street my friend could have suffered the double humilation , as if she's a 6 year old and should be told what to do .

If they happen , especially the male parent to bring you lots of doughnuts and a box of sweetend coffee , (It could taken from different perspective that is a caring thing , or that he still thinks his daughters are young ) or he isn't a caring person , because he know that healthy food is the right way , instead of watching you getting fatter ,and then watching you trying to lose weight ,and then manupilating you into eating so that you wont love the way you look , thus yourself ,and not being in control .

You are older than 25 , so you are in control of what to wear , actually it starts way before 25 for most people , so he shouldn't tell you not to dress in revealing clothes or put something on top , even if you have black or white curves , because you are young adults and you should be in control . I think that what happens when some people live under the parents rule , because they live in the same house.