The apple doesn't fall far from the Tree..

Like father like son , or Like mother like daughter...

Women who don't take care of themselves or thier looks are the same as those who take care of themselves in an obsessive way , both bring the same outcome..., especially if they have girls , which is girls who don't really like themselves , because in both ways the mother doesn't give love to others , the one who doesn't take care of herself , can't give much from herself ..., and the one who obsess about herself ... , can't really love any other as much and only cares about herself,even though they are the opposite ..but infact they are similar , so here you'll have "like mother like daughter " or incase of hatred toward the parent , you'll have the opposite.
Healthy Self-love is needed inorder to give to others , to take care of your looks and your health is a good thing , but not to extreme and not ignore the health and the looks , other wise you'll have girls with self-esteem issues , and it may show itself in different ways .