where art thou personality ?

Parents , we like them ...we hate them ...we are stuck with them .
They come in all shapes and sizes and personalities , speaking of personalities , I believe that parents and thier kids personalities comes hand in hand , how come ?, first kids inherit some of the characteristics of one or two of their parents personality , plus the rest is from the environment especially home environment . Parents have a role and sometimes a big role into washing or growing thier kids personalities , when I say washing I mean you have a happy go-lucky social butterfly kid , but when that kid is usually at home and he sees the parents always fighting it changes who he is . There are usually some known types of parents personality that usually washes thier kids personalities or changes them , and they are the over-protecting parent , you see a 20 something young adult who still ,
behaves as a kid , and the parents still baby him , now whose fault is this , I'd say 50/50 , or the kid whose afraid of everything because he is usually around anxious parents who make a big deal out of spilled milk.The narcisisstic parents who think thier kids are part of them and not seperate from them so they demand the kid to be more like them or try to shape the kids the way they
want them to be , Controlling parents , who like to control thier kids , and the list goes on..

No wonder some kids have no or weak personalites .

sheesh I should have majored in psychology .