To see how much you can handle...

God tests you ...
They say that God tests you to see how much you can handle , and that he wont give you obstacles and problems more than you can handle . I don't think this thing fits everyone , I mean can you handle cancer , the loss of a loved one , severe illness , severe abuse ,being a war victim ...etc ? .I know that there are small things that bother me , and sometimes I feel like they are too big to handle , but they are small compared to the bigger problems. I once heard that if God really like you he will send you some problems to see how much you can tolerate .I don't
beleive in that , because love is supposed to feel good and if you love someone you wouldn't hurt that person just to see how much that person can handel. Sometimes I feel that I am supposed to accept whatever God send me , otherwise one day he'll send me something bad...something more than I can handle because I haven't been thanking him for the little blessings I have and usually take for granted or wish to have something else other than the package he sent to me , or so what some people would say.