Man of the House

On Men and the LOVE of Control...

I wonder why most men like , I mean Loooooooove to control , especially when it comes to thier women , daughters and sons and thier house .They love to tell thier offspring what to do , even when it's something minor , like for instance you take a 24 year old , whose supposedly more mature than a 17 year old and the man of the house will start telling the 24 year old , what to wear or sometimes the control goes far as insisting the other take this breakfest by putting food in thier plate .What I don't get and this I see from some friends of mine , who are engaged /married (some marry young,it's unfortunate , but you've probably heard of the 22 - 25 year old cpuples ,) anyways , the husband would be trying to control alot of things in the house as in his mind he is "The man of the House" , and the wife shouldn't have a say , she does have a say but it all goes back to the husaband , as if it's his house alone or he's single .

I've heard complaines from friends of mine , whose husband when he decides on something he decideds to do it , without taking thier opinion (thier wife /fiance )or they ask thier opinion just for the sake of asking but they do go on with what's in thier mind and the wife MUST agree so she wont get in trouble , it's as if the wife is a doormant or a person who doesn't have a say in things concerning the house , like the arrangement of the coaches or which LCD Tv should one bring ....etc .

men LOVE to control and women have a high degree of TOLERANCE (not all women, as if it was me ,that man would be long gone out of my life )

hmm, should I go back to uni. and change my major to Marriage Counselor ? lol