Charismatic personality

So ,

What makes some charming while others not so ? , what makes some sociable creatures while others shy wallflowers ? , the answer is person-ality ...

You have probably bumped into charming people that made you Jelouse at the same time captive and allured to thier charm , you've probably wanted to attain those characteristics of thiers ,or wanted to put them down and turn them off ,just because the quantity of the loving fans towards these peronalities is rising on a daily basis .

Most charming people , have alot of "good" characteristics , and good not in the sense of goody two shoes ,although that can be one of them , but in the sense of attractive qualities ,kind of qualities found in brazen , impish naughty 6 year olds , Fun , outgoing, wants to learn about life,smart , sociable, don't listen to authority (parents) ,independent,self-centered ,loving ,spoiled and usually they look like one or look younger than thier age , as one gets older he/she loses these qualities and becomes more polite , but it's those who keep those childish qualities are the charming ones.

It's not fair for a person to have a well rounded personality and image ...nearing the Utopian persona ?, well...yea I agree, it does get irritating ...especially when you find a person who's a genuis plus good looking or high maintenance ,cool,smart,sociable ,fun..etc having all the wanted and attractive qualities , because we are used to the geeky genuis or the dull looking person with the great personality , at least this is what movies tell us , and this is what some people are , but to be and have all the well rounded qualites that are ingrediants for a successful person is something, Maybe God did prefer those people over others, or maybe ..just maybe , they do work hard on that , I mean they have it in the first place ,but to nourish and florish it they do work hard , you don't see them working hard ...as it aint cool to show that , they make it seem natural as possible.

Character is built by the age of 3 , but that doesn't mean that one can't work on it , but if one passed his twenties (which is the last chance to build a character ,actually people still work on thier personality flaws even after they finished thier twenties but it gets harder ) and he /she didn't work on his/her self , he/she will probably be stuck with the current peronality ..., unless he/she developed a personality disorder , that is usually always changing, than that's another thing .